Some people don’t need to learn the lesson, some get a unique opportunity to learn the lesson without hurting anyone, and unfortunately some either never learn or do irreparable damage before learning. I got a unique opportunity, and while it still, 43 years later, makes my face flush with embarrassment I will share a little..
I took about 3 feet out of the top of a standing dead tree with the tail of a 185 in front of a rather large gathering of friends when I was 18 years old. I think I was probably doing about 170 mph at the time, and the line between raining limbs down and catastrophe was razor thin. When I got back to the hangar, I did two things that afternoon. I disassembled the tail to look for hidden damage, and I tore up my brand new commercial pilot certificate. I figured if I was that stupid I had no business ever putting an unsuspecting passenger in an airplane with me.
Several days later, the GM of the company I was working for who was also a DPE, called me into his office and slid a new temporary certificate across the desk. He told me that when he heard I had torn my license up he figured I had learned a lesson that likely saved my, and maybe someone else’s life. I truly believe he was right, and I never, ever forgot that lesson. When another person gets in an airplane with me I truly treat it as a sacred trust, and always will.
This still hurts to recount this story even though it was 43 years ago. What bothers me more is that there is at least one person on this forum who was there that day, it still comes up occasionally and it still really bothers me....
Be careful and thoughtful when you’re out there having fun........
Edit- not that it really matters, but I was thankfully alone in the airplane that day.