How many hours do you have? I have a modded J-3 with the C-85, front seat solo. Modifications were done when I bought it and learned in it. Only about 100 hours and am no where near figuring out how to use the planes capability. It all depends what you are using it for and how far you plan to go, lots of good info on the J-3 Cub forum, but most guys don't like modifying them.
I could easily drop probably 20 lbs from my plane. Remove 26" Airstreaks, remove safety cables, remove fuel steps, switch to lighter landing landing gear, remove shoulder straps, put on a wood prop, does dropping any of that weight make sense? Not to me at this point. As she sits, she's 806lb (actually weighed on scales, don't do that if you can avoid it, all are heavier than the factory said), heavier than a lot of what people say their cubs weigh (a lot not weighed on scales), about average for PA-11 weights I found. Another thing that adds weight but no way would give up having is the wing tanks, far better than carrying gas in the plane if that is the alternative, depends on the mission.
My advice would be 1) enjoy building time burning less than 5 gallons an hour (love that!) 2) don't modifiy anything that can't be easily undone 3) learn it stock so you know if what you changed did you any good 4) don't tell the other cub guys if you ever paint it a different color (mine's red and black, which melts the ice off really quick in the winter!). Mine was already modified and I learned in it so have nothing to compare it to, but I still love it.